Over the last 2 weeks, it seems as if many of the guys from my past have been coming out of the wood work.  It all began with I guess you could say “reuniting” with my ex.  After that I got an email from the most recent guy I used to date.  The next day another email from a guy I dated in grad school, that I haven’t talked to in years.  Checked the voicemail on my house phone and noticed another guy I used to date when I first moved back to the area left a message.  Haven’t seen him since a mutual friend’s wedding last summer.  Lastly, I got yet another email from the last guy I dated in undergrad (back in ’02). Very strange.

Although, I’m a pro at cutting people off once relationships are over, it’s been pretty easy to remain cordial with my exes over the years.  I always find it interesting when they just pop back up and want to catch up on life. 

Not sure what to owe all these random attempts at reconnecting or getting these “I was just thinking about you” messages but it’s kind of strange that I’m hearing from all of these guys within such a short amount of time. 

I try not to overanalyze things but it makes me wonder what’s really going on through their heads?  Was talking to a friend about this who just had something similar happen to her and we can’t figure it out.  Why do men feel the need to pop back up in our lives after so much time has passed?  They seem to think it’s normal to just resume things after not hearing from them for so long whether it’s been months or years and act as if nothing’s changed.  Truthfully, I don’t get it.

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